I was telling someone how I have this amazing connection with someone and want to take it from friendship to more. How my body is craving it. They responded “That is the hardest when we crave that intimate connection and want that validation.
Wow that was it that was what I wanted, couldn’t put it into words so well and what it was but yes. I want them to tell me they want me as much as I want them. I want them to make the move to push it beyond just friends. I want the validation they have the same feelings as I do.
I also have this history of people only telling me many years later how much they liked me and how they wish things became more. Often this happens when either party can not try to make it work because timing is bad. But back when we liked each other timing was awesome, really awesome but no one made the move scared to get hurt. Well, I want and crave for this person to make the move, do it, push it past just friends, push it to more.
- Lean over and touch me, if my shoulder, my hand, or any part of my body
- Lean in and kiss me
- Or just tell me “I like you”
- Or invite me over get me in a different setting and make that move