I was telling someone how I have this amazing connection with someone and want to take it from friendship to more. How my body is craving it. They responded "That is the hardest when we crave that intimate connection and want that validation. Wow that was it that was what I wanted, couldn't put it into words so well and what it was but yes. I want them to tell me they want me as much as I want them. I want them to make the move to push it beyond just friends. I want the validation they have … [Read more...]

Keep them safe, keep them whole, keep them joyful, keep them , just keep them safe for at least tonight that we may sleep….God forbid they should be safe forever, that just wouldnt be fair now would it? Anyone who has ever loved anyone understands the peace in knowing our beloved are safe. This realization didn't dawn on me until I had a child. Once you have a child your mind is plagued with all kinds of thoughts about what could go wrong. I won't bore you with details but we all know the power … [Read more...]

Let's be real, not everybody should be able to have a baby.  We can argue the politics of it, we can argue how wrong I am to even suggest that certain people shouldn't ever have children but we live in a world where mothers sell their daughters and politicians visit third world countries with their viagra.  So let's not pretend we don't.   Hear me out.  I once wrote a paper in college suggesting that all American citizens be on a diet that chemically kept them from conceiving.  If that sounds … [Read more...]