Someone just take my hand and lead me to better ground. Tell me everything is going to be OK. Just hug me. I really need somewhere I can feel safe. Somewhere I am not the one who is getting blamed somewhere where I can just curl up and sleep and not dreading tomorrow. I thought I did everything right, I tried my best but I feel like there were no prizes and rewards. My reward is a marriage I live fearful in, getting blamed, yelled at, talked down to, and not trusted. My reward is a life I … [Read more...]
Awkard Message But Had To Say It and Break the Ice
My hunch is the last two weekends you went on dates. I could be wrong but have seen our chats be less, and focus elsewhere. This woman will get attentive, caring a great conversationalist guy. As things progress if you feel she wouldn’t accept you doing our hobby platonically with me. Or if you want to start sharing your hobby with her, just tell me, I will understand I don’t want you to feel uncomfortable to have to tell me. You have been a really cool friend over the last several months, you … [Read more...]
Oh Boy I Fell For a Similar Pattern
So I dealt for years with someone not emotionally available, and I thought I did better as we got to know each other I am realizing so, are you. You act like you are emotionally available but the truth is I have no idea what your pains are what hurt you the most with your own divorce. What you cry about, what you desire the most, where you have failed, what you dislike and want angers you. You just act like every day is good. Here or there you show me a blimp or emotion but it isn't enough. … [Read more...]
Buying a House
40% of monthy income and no more should go to mortgage, HOA....For example for home expensices be $3000 morgage, hoa you need to make 7500 a month which be 90K a year.All people should have 6 months emergency money that be $30K and be $5000 per a monthI need to read Peter Lynch One Up on Wall Street … [Read more...]
I Chased, Yes Past Tense
I chased, oh I was available, messaged when things were silent, made small talk to keep the conversation going but I am done chasing. I gave the biggest cue today and you grabbed a bit of it and said you need to run off for lunch. However, a man who was really interested would say or gesture "yeah baby, I want that and all of it." I need to focus on myself, you can catch up to me, and maybe will give you a chance if you prove yourself, but I am not chasing. I am done hoping and I am done … [Read more...]
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